10 Psychological Effect of Frequent Prohibit Child

Naturally, when parents do not want to ‘missed’ in parenting. When they gave freedom to children that happen is a bad thing so as to make parents regret. Therefore they so over protective in children.

However, too much gives the ban in parenting would be bad for the development of the child. Here is some risk when parents are too many prohibit child. 10 Psychological Effect of Frequent Prohibit Child.

1. Timid

When the movement of a child is too limited they are so not free expression. So a child grow into a minder. For example, when first they were happy cooking, but his parents forbid because don't want a child is exposed to the danger of a stove or a knife, then they will grow up to be afraid of when it will start a new thing.

2. Scaramouche

Not a problem actually, if parents allow a child to help parents work or are working on their own tasks, such as washing the dishes or pulling weeds in the garden. However, because parents do not want a child to break the dishes or play dirty in the garden, then what happens is a child lost passion for the day.

3. Not confident

When parents are too curb a child in many ways, the effect is a children become self-confident. They did not believe the skills they have because to try the course, parents meragukannnya. For that, people should give a chance to a child in trying new things. With the record, the parents keep an eye on and remind a child to always be careful. 

4. The impact of many Prohibit the Age of 0-12 Months: the Development of Disturbed

Because it is not able to explore with its environment, the development of the baby impaired both physically and mentally. Child meganggap the environment is not safe. He is afraid when they want to berekplorasin with objects or items in ketahuinya.

5. The impact of many Prohibit the Age of 1-2 Years: Less Creative

A child trouble getting way out because it is often banned. One-satinya that can be done is to ask the help of an adult. He will also look at other people first.

6. The impact of many Prohibits the Age of 3-5 Years: Less Inspiring

He new move if there is told or give orders, no encouragement from yourself to act. Less diligent in doing sesuyatu so easy to stop before it is finished. The ability to learn from the environment is also very less. All the potential that has not be explored.

7. The impact of many Prohibit the Age of 6-8 Years: Not confident

Because of his skill less, a child so don't believe yourself.  He grew so private timid and passive; only trailing his friends, not free to determine his own fate. Sometimes he

8. The impact of many prohibit the Age of 9-12 Years: the Academic Achievement of Low

some of the capabilities and advantages buried so just because he wasn't able to hone da menepanya. Remember, learning is sometimes through a process of trial and error, or learning by doing. Well how does a child want to try that many banned?

The ability of the analysis is also reduced because the process of learning is not optimal. Similarly, with the ability to solve problems, he is difficult to look for the best alternatives from a variety of problems. The impact, prestasu academic low.

9. Be inferior

The fear of parents that excessive cause a child have a fear of the same. In addition, the involvement of parents in all things which are done of a child, make a child live in the shadow of old people. As a result, a child is afraid to do things outside of the supervision of parents.

This does not just impact the time a child is still small. Pattern orphanage that You select will continue to be carried away and formed the personality of a child to adulthood. So, a child who was raised by parents who always curb and banning will grow so personal discouraged, afraid to take risks, and don't have the initiative.

10. Life of dependence and can't resolve the problem yourself

Lauren Feiden, a psychologist with a specialization in the field of the relationship of parents and a child from the United States (US) states in that overprotective parenting is a problem that can make a child becomes a dependency and can't face his own problems.

This is because the parents always interfere in every challenge faced by the child so that the decision taken was dependent on my parents. A child will always rely on parents to determine or resolve something.

Easy lied

Parents that are too restrictive can encourage a child to lie. The problem is, parents also need to be realistic and realize that a child also needs enough wiggle room to develop themselves. Without the space for such a child will be looking for loopholes and finally a lie to get away from the restraints of parents. 

In addition, if a child is not in accordance with the wishes of the parents, then a child (consciously or unconsciously) choose to lie as an attempt to avoid punishment. 

Stress and anxious

As it turns out, one of the factors causing anxiety is a pattern of parenting in the form of supervision which is excessive to the activities of academic and non-academic a child. Although a child is not doing anything wrong, supervised endlessly can indeed make a child so anxious because so afraid of making a mistake. 

As has been described above, basically protect a child is a good thing. However, go too far in protecting it proved to have quite a lot of adverse effects. Hence, there are several ways that can be done to prevent the impact on the top.

Parents can set limits for a child while providing freedom in a balanced portion through the following tips.

  • Encourage a child who is old enough to be more independent, for example, go to the stalls or the school itself (but You secretly need to follow and watch him from behind). 
  • Give the opportunity to a child to face and solve the problem themselves.
  • Encourage the potential and abilities of a child with the support of a child doing positive things she likes, even though it means a child has to go home more the afternoon as part of the course.
  • Give the understanding that failure is a thing that must be faced and be used as a lesson.
  • Build good communication, one way to listen to a story to a child.
  • Be firm when a child past the boundaries that have been defined, for example home late at night without telling anybody first.
  • Believe in a child. You yourself have to learn to calm yourself and have more confidence in the maturity of a child so that he can develop properly.

You already or will be parents, don't forget to learn parenting yes, so well balanced and not too protect! See you in the next article, thank you.

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